Level
Today we leveled the flooring, put on decking, and built a wall. Tomorrow: more walls. I like walls. I miss walls. I'm sleeping in a bunkhouse with thirty other men. What are the odds you can pick thirty men more or less at random and end up with none that snore or fart while they sleep? I think about the same as a bunch of monkeys typing up the complete works of Shakespeare. And come to think of it, thirty men crammed into a bunkhouse are about as smelly as a bunch of monkeys.
There's a man here named Conrad. He used to be a contractor, and I think he can build or fix anything. He shows up at our site at exactly the point when we're confounded or about to do great harm to ourselves or the project, and sets us all straight without making anyone feel stupid, without drawing attention to the fact that he could probably build it faster without us.
He came out to volunteer, then went home, shut down his business, and moved his family out to live in a little trailer on the Lagniappe Church site. We moved his trailer to build the bunkhouse. He's still working as I type tonight, installing an ice machine. This is a great and wonderful thing, because tepid Gatorade just does not hit the spot.
I see men like him and realize how little most of us do, even when we think we are sacrificing. In a week I'll go home to my comfortable house and bed. Every night he sleeps in that trailer, after working twelve or fourteen hours.
What is it in these men? They fascinate me, that they can give up so much, that they can be so patient with the van loads of people who roll in here for a few days of bending nails and getting underfoot.
I've read about commitment like this, but I've never witnessed it up close. It's humbling.
Oh, and because I know you're all wondering: yes, the boy got dinner. With dessert.
Posted by Woodlief on July 11, 2006 at 10:19 PM
See, thats how we know you being the scary guy is a carefully crafted illusion: (1) You think the slacker-teenager is a "boy", where as I think the slacker-teenager is a ... slacker. And thats one of the kinder words I thought of. (2) You seem to almost think we might have a problem with the "boy" not getting dessert. Actually, I have no problem with real boys not getting dessert if they behave like that. I certainly have NO problem with a male capable of producing off-spring and joining the military during WWII missing out on dessert. (3) You feel bad about making him feel bad, while I think you should feel GOOD about making him feel bad because you helped him see he was being bad and gave him the opportunity to be good. YAY for you! (I really mean that :)
It dawns on me that perhaps I really am the "scary one" in our neighborhood :)